Most men think they will never get married, but when it actually happens, the best man will play a crucial part in making your wedding a success. They will be your wingman, support and the one who will help you make sure everything goes smoothly.

It is most likely that you will choose your brother or best friend to be your best man, and there are a couple of things you need to keep in mind when picking the lucky guy.

The following handy hints will help when choosing your best man:

 

• He needs to be fun! Planning a wedding is stressful and you need a man who will perk you up when it gets a little much. However the main part of the fun factor will be used when arranging the Stag Do!
• He needs to be likeable. Does your future wife like him? He is going to be making a pretty important speech on the day so he should hold a special place in both your hearts; he will be creating one of the biggest memories of your wedding.
• Great manners and a touch of responsibility won’t go a miss, he will be on hand to charm the in laws and calm nerves as well as holding the brides ring, God only knows what would happen if that went missing!
• He should be a little discreet and have an understanding of a ‘time and a place’. After all, we’re sure he knows all the dirt on you, but he needs to be able to decide what is appropriate to tell at a wedding and what is just in bad taste.
• Obviously a good sense of humour would be ideal, this will help in calming your nerves on the day as well as everybody elses!
• Overall, go for the man who instantly comes to mind when you think of your best man, your gut instinct will ensure you choose the right person.

 

This may seem a little cliché, but your best man really does need to be reassuring to you and understand why you are getting married. Any cold feet will need to be warmed back up by him and not encouraged! Any worries will need to be soothed and any problems will need to be solved!

If you take in these tips, you will be sure to pick the right man for the job!

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